The Miss USA/gay marriage controversy
By Jennifer J. Foster
Who would have thought that the Miss USA pageant, with its plastic surgery-enhanced contestants and stringy bikinis, would end up being the scene of the biggest religious controversy since Roy Moore?
But it was. You have surely heard by now about Miss California, Carrie Prejean, and her exchange with judge Perez Hilton.
Let’s set the scene: Prejean is a conservative Christian. Hilton is an openly gay entertainment blogger. And California is still smoldering from the bitter, divisive—yet ultimately successful—campaign to restrict marriage to its traditional definition.
According to articles I read, pageant watchers seem to agree that Prejean was the frontrunner in the late stages of Sunday night’s competition as the contestants entered the daunting Q&A session. This segment has been the scene of many a public relations disaster in recent years, not the least of which was the poor contestant from South Carolina who gave that completely unintelligible answer about ... education.
So the beautiful people held their breath as Prejean strode to the microphone to receive her question from the judges.
Hilton beamed as he asked Prejean for her thoughts on gay marriage. Prejean kept smiling, but you could tell it wasn’t the question she wanted.
You can watch the exchange on YouTube or on any one of a zillion other places on the web, but the bottom line was this: Prejean opposes gay marriage, and Hilton made her pay.
Sure, Prejean could have been more eloquent. She seemed to stumble for a moment, almost as if she was trying to find a way to walk a line that wouldn’t offend those on either side of this issue. It led to her using the unfortunate phrase, “Same-sex marriage, or opposite,“ which threatens to find its way into bad-pageant-answer lore. But Prejean eventually found her footing and stated clearly that she doesn’t believe in gay marriage, because those are the values she was taught.
A few minutes later, Miss North Carolina was wearing the crown.
I read an article that detailed the judges’ responsibilities during the interview portion of the contest. According to the rules, they were to rank the top five contestants from 1 to 5 based on their answers. Hilton, in between personal attacks on Prejean that included calling her a “b——“ and continuing online rants on his web site, said that he gave Prejean a 0 for her answer. (Of course, Hilton is as much a bigot as he claims homophobes are, but let’s not trouble him with trifling inconsistencies.)
Either Perez Hilton is lying to the world about how he scored Carrie Prejean, or he broke the rules of the contest.
For her part, Prejean has been outspoken—if not that her politically unpopular answer cost her the crown, then certainly that the question was a test of her faith. Meanwhile, Hollywood celebrities galore are lining up to bash her, calling her a bigot, and worse, for doing nothing more than answering honestly the question she was asked.
This goes to what I was just saying on Saturday about Americans no longer knowing how to respect the political opinions of those with whom they disagree.
Here’s the deal: If these beauty pageants are going to venture out from the safety of the candidates’ PR-friendly platforms and delve into the difficult issues of our time, they are going to have to grow up a bit. They are going to have to respect the reality that their contestants, though they share spectacular beauty, nutrition regimens and pageant consultants, may have different ideas about the world.
If judges want to ask about candidates’ political opinions, they need to respect them.
If the Miss USA pageant wants to retain any credibility, its owners need to come forth and state strongly and unequivocally that it was Perez Hilton—not Carrie Prejean—who was out of line on Sunday night. If they don’t want to offend their viewers with the possibility that their contestants may oppose gay marriage, then they shouldn’t allow their judges to ask questions about it.
I read a story yesterday that explored whether Prejean has a case for discrimination based on her religion. I’m not usually one to cheerlead disaffected citizens into civil court, but I think Prejean should chase this suit—not for monetary gain, but to extract from the Miss USA pageant the apology she should receive and the rules clarification that should be made in the wake of this ridiculous fiasco.
And I would dig it if she took Perez Hilton to civil court, too, for emotional pain and suffering and the trauma he has inflicted upon her reputation with his slanderous personal attacks on her character. It would be great if she could get a little money from him ... a little consolation prize for her charity, of course. ![]()